Don’t Be Scared For The Fear Of Falling
November 25, 2006
When my friends talk about their childhood, their face lights up instantly. Their joviality seems to absorb all their tension and sorrows. As I sit near the window against the backdrop of the crimson sky while the cold breeze caresses my face a child hidden somewhere in me feels content.
The transition from being just an ordinary child to a grown up individual was an undoubtedly long journey, even though it was quite enriching. I had my share of hurdles, but I refused to get bogged down by them. Those hurdles were inevitable but hope kept me alive.
I have seen a lot of people who cannot accept personal loss and failure and have adopted a defeatist, depressed sort of attitude in their daily lives. Everybody has his or her own interpretation of depression. For me, depression is a phobia of failure and an inability to move on as a result.
In my case, my brother, friends and family were all a big support, and so I decided to let difficulties know that I’m the one who is difficult. Instead of being crestfallen I stayed buoyed up and today I have made it my motto that, “Don’t be scared for the fear of falling. Instead, let yourself fall in order to learn to stand again, stronger.”